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		<title>By: Eric's SoulFunkPunk Experience</title>
		<link>http://www.jackandjillpolitics.com/2008/05/if-we-cant-love-ourselves/comment-page-1/#comment-14212</link>
		<dc:creator>Eric's SoulFunkPunk Experience</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 00:50:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Is everytime some idiot like Flavor Flav, some Blood or Crip or some African- American acts a fool I am supposed to feel guilty and respond to these issues like they are the end of the world. Since nobody in this country wants to do any thinking beyond the Cosby/Dyson view or show stats about teen pregancies,  and  is Black on Black crime so different than any other gang shootings and the like? White Guilt has left the building and has been replaced in the last 20 years with &quot;Racial Correctness&quot; and if you challenge ...&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;1. Whites&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;2. mainstream media &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;3. other holier than thou Negroes&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;4.  American policy &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;5. Urban Policy is not pathological but a systemic history of events that has left a legacy&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;6. That Israel&#039;s policy towards the middle east is genocidial and just as bad as the Nazi party &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;7. Or that modren Black Conservatism is morally and intellectually bankrupt because they have no orignial ideas &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;8. While you may disagree once in a while with the tatics of the media- chosen Black leader  trio of Jackson, Sharpton, and Farrahkan but on the whole they do a good job being advocates for African- Americans who have no voice&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;You will be called a &quot;Reverse Racist. Whiner, Anti- American, Anti- Semetic, or a CRACKPOT, but if you criticize people like Me and others on these various sites in which progressive ideas and intellectual debate is strongest (unlike the mainstream) you will be rewarded with money, fame, and the tag of black redeemer or &quot;leading intellectual. That my friends is &quot;R.C.&quot; or Black Guilt and that is worst than any so- called white guilt.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is everytime some idiot like Flavor Flav, some Blood or Crip or some African- American acts a fool I am supposed to feel guilty and respond to these issues like they are the end of the world. Since nobody in this country wants to do any thinking beyond the Cosby/Dyson view or show stats about teen pregancies,  and  is Black on Black crime so different than any other gang shootings and the like? White Guilt has left the building and has been replaced in the last 20 years with &#8220;Racial Correctness&#8221; and if you challenge &#8230;</p>
<p>1. Whites</p>
<p>2. mainstream media </p>
<p>3. other holier than thou Negroes</p>
<p>4.  American policy </p>
<p>5. Urban Policy is not pathological but a systemic history of events that has left a legacy</p>
<p>6. That Israel&#8217;s policy towards the middle east is genocidial and just as bad as the Nazi party </p>
<p>7. Or that modren Black Conservatism is morally and intellectually bankrupt because they have no orignial ideas </p>
<p>8. While you may disagree once in a while with the tatics of the media- chosen Black leader  trio of Jackson, Sharpton, and Farrahkan but on the whole they do a good job being advocates for African- Americans who have no voice</p>
<p>You will be called a &#8220;Reverse Racist. Whiner, Anti- American, Anti- Semetic, or a CRACKPOT, but if you criticize people like Me and others on these various sites in which progressive ideas and intellectual debate is strongest (unlike the mainstream) you will be rewarded with money, fame, and the tag of black redeemer or &#8220;leading intellectual. That my friends is &#8220;R.C.&#8221; or Black Guilt and that is worst than any so- called white guilt.</p>
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		<title>By: N. Mahana</title>
		<link>http://www.jackandjillpolitics.com/2008/05/if-we-cant-love-ourselves/comment-page-1/#comment-14205</link>
		<dc:creator>N. Mahana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 23:42:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>devynemyzt,&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;That argument is fine except I doubt those &quot;rogue bretheren&quot; read Jack and Jill. I mean lets be honest do they really care about politics...do they really care about anything?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I stand by what I said.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>devynemyzt,</p>
<p>That argument is fine except I doubt those &#8220;rogue bretheren&#8221; read Jack and Jill. I mean lets be honest do they really care about politics&#8230;do they really care about anything?</p>
<p>I stand by what I said.</p>
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		<title>By: DevyneMyzT</title>
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		<dc:creator>DevyneMyzT</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 17:39:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think that many that responded to this post have the writer mistaken. Its not that we are being called to take responsiblity for our rogue brethren, or that we have to apologize to the country everytime something bad happens cause we are Black. I think what the writer is getting at is perception.&lt;br/&gt;The fact is, there is too much news about the rogues and not enough news about the scholars. When you combine this with the facts, stigma and consequential inequality that exists towards black people, you have folks that hate us hating us more and folks that may have been on the fence before running scared.&lt;br/&gt;BET, MTV and others have made a mockery of what black culture is all about; go overseas and speak to people that have never met and African-American. We are characterized by the negative stereotypes that are associated with some hip-hop artists and music, and on a grand scale. &lt;br/&gt;So the author isn&#039;t saying we are responsible, they are merely saying, don&#039;t add to the hype. Lets reduce the negative perception at the streel level. It will expand.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that many that responded to this post have the writer mistaken. Its not that we are being called to take responsiblity for our rogue brethren, or that we have to apologize to the country everytime something bad happens cause we are Black. I think what the writer is getting at is perception.<br />The fact is, there is too much news about the rogues and not enough news about the scholars. When you combine this with the facts, stigma and consequential inequality that exists towards black people, you have folks that hate us hating us more and folks that may have been on the fence before running scared.<br />BET, MTV and others have made a mockery of what black culture is all about; go overseas and speak to people that have never met and African-American. We are characterized by the negative stereotypes that are associated with some hip-hop artists and music, and on a grand scale. <br />So the author isn&#8217;t saying we are responsible, they are merely saying, don&#8217;t add to the hype. Lets reduce the negative perception at the streel level. It will expand.</p>
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		<title>By: Not Delusional</title>
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		<dc:creator>Not Delusional</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 17:20:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>1) Who is dumb or naive enough to think that Obama could cure any of the problems in the Black community as president.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;2) Why should decent Black folk be lumped in with this urban dysfunctionality. Please do not lump all Black people in with this madness. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;3)When urban white trash and trailer trolls do their dirt do you to tell white people to get it together. Why should decent black people feel any accountability for this. I&#039;m offended by your assertion.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Black liberals trying to play us for chumps again...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1) Who is dumb or naive enough to think that Obama could cure any of the problems in the Black community as president.</p>
<p>2) Why should decent Black folk be lumped in with this urban dysfunctionality. Please do not lump all Black people in with this madness. </p>
<p>3)When urban white trash and trailer trolls do their dirt do you to tell white people to get it together. Why should decent black people feel any accountability for this. I&#8217;m offended by your assertion.</p>
<p>Black liberals trying to play us for chumps again&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Ronnie B</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ronnie B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 12:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can appreciate the fine line between community affinity and identification, and being accountable for the worst behavior among us.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Shortly after the Virginia Tech shootings--and the revelation that the shooter was Korean American--a government official from Korea was said to have called our government to offer an apology.  Was that their responsibility to do so?  To them, maybe so.  To some White Americans, maybe so.  To some Black Americans ... well, for me, I don&#039;t think it was necessary.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;That said, there are still those in our community that we &quot;claim&quot; as our own.  And some of them do some pretty vile stuff.  But at some point, we gotta cut those folks loose, and concentrate on those who still have (and want) a chance.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can appreciate the fine line between community affinity and identification, and being accountable for the worst behavior among us.</p>
<p>Shortly after the Virginia Tech shootings&#8211;and the revelation that the shooter was Korean American&#8211;a government official from Korea was said to have called our government to offer an apology.  Was that their responsibility to do so?  To them, maybe so.  To some White Americans, maybe so.  To some Black Americans &#8230; well, for me, I don&#8217;t think it was necessary.</p>
<p>That said, there are still those in our community that we &#8220;claim&#8221; as our own.  And some of them do some pretty vile stuff.  But at some point, we gotta cut those folks loose, and concentrate on those who still have (and want) a chance.</p>
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		<title>By: marc</title>
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		<dc:creator>marc</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 12:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i&#039;m white, and i get sad when i read such stuff.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;you don&#039;t need a &quot;Bogey-Man&quot; to give ammo to racists, racists are defined by taking aim although there is no ammo.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;so stop the whining, cpl, stop watching the whites from the corner of your eye, stop that eternal self doubt.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;as a person, you are better than that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i&#8217;m white, and i get sad when i read such stuff.</p>
<p>you don&#8217;t need a &#8220;Bogey-Man&#8221; to give ammo to racists, racists are defined by taking aim although there is no ammo.</p>
<p>so stop the whining, cpl, stop watching the whites from the corner of your eye, stop that eternal self doubt.</p>
<p>as a person, you are better than that.</p>
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		<title>By: Tribalace</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tribalace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 05:17:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Human beings kill one another it&#039;s been happening since people became people.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Has nothing to do with the race of the perpetrators.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Don&#039;t see how crime is a problem for Black America.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;You&#039;re never ever ever going to end crime. No matter what community we&#039;re talking about so stop the bull &quot;We got to do better shit&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Human beings kill one another it&#8217;s been happening since people became people.</p>
<p>Has nothing to do with the race of the perpetrators.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t see how crime is a problem for Black America.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re never ever ever going to end crime. No matter what community we&#8217;re talking about so stop the bull &#8220;We got to do better shit&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: I am not Star Jones</title>
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		<dc:creator>I am not Star Jones</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 04:03:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Obama cannot make people regain (or gain) their humanity. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;It&#039;s a choice to be ruthless and heartless.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;What will it take for us to restore dignity to our daily lives?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Obama cannot make people regain (or gain) their humanity. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s a choice to be ruthless and heartless.</p>
<p>What will it take for us to restore dignity to our daily lives?</p>
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		<title>By: Silver Owl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Silver Owl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 03:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The heinous and depraved behavior of mob mentality is not a black phenomenon.  It&#039;s something that is exhibited by all races through out the history of mankind.  It is always horrific and repulsive.  &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;In this particular situation there were people that did the right thing.  They called 911.  They gave their eye witness reports and hopefully they&#039;ll be witnesses at the trial as well.  There are many situations where no one comes forward.  &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;What America has to deal with is how we got to the point that &quot;manhood&quot; and &quot;masculine strength&quot; has become so fragile and weak that it requires blood, death and destruction as the price for the most inconsequential actions.  &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Too much emphasis is put on strength being about destruction rather than building.  Our government right now is based on that suicidal philosophy.  In order to be strong we have to destroy not build.  It&#039;s killing all of us. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;We as a nation have to make strength about constructing. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;No Obama can not miraculously save us he is certainly a step towards constructing a better future and a definitive step away from the current rut of destruction that we&#039;ve been wallowing in for far too long.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The heinous and depraved behavior of mob mentality is not a black phenomenon.  It&#8217;s something that is exhibited by all races through out the history of mankind.  It is always horrific and repulsive.  </p>
<p>In this particular situation there were people that did the right thing.  They called 911.  They gave their eye witness reports and hopefully they&#8217;ll be witnesses at the trial as well.  There are many situations where no one comes forward.  </p>
<p>What America has to deal with is how we got to the point that &#8220;manhood&#8221; and &#8220;masculine strength&#8221; has become so fragile and weak that it requires blood, death and destruction as the price for the most inconsequential actions.  </p>
<p>Too much emphasis is put on strength being about destruction rather than building.  Our government right now is based on that suicidal philosophy.  In order to be strong we have to destroy not build.  It&#8217;s killing all of us. </p>
<p>We as a nation have to make strength about constructing. </p>
<p>No Obama can not miraculously save us he is certainly a step towards constructing a better future and a definitive step away from the current rut of destruction that we&#8217;ve been wallowing in for far too long.</p>
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		<title>By: N. Mahana</title>
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		<dc:creator>N. Mahana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 01:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@nquest&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I agree, why are &quot;we&quot; defined by the most vile among us? I don&#039;t get that logic either.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I can see both points being posted here but there is something unsettling about the idea of &quot;not loving ourselves, means we (as black Americans) aren&#039;t worthy of being treated as human beings&quot;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Last time I checked, I am a law abiding citizen. Is it my responsibility that other&#039;s are not...someone, somewhere I&#039;ve never met...or is it my responsibility to go by and teach my children a moral code and hope they make the right choices in their life?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I hope to hell I am not defined by what a murderer does, just because he happens to share my skin color.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;However, we know that is the case many times. It&#039;s unjust and it&#039;s wrong.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@nquest</p>
<p>I agree, why are &#8220;we&#8221; defined by the most vile among us? I don&#8217;t get that logic either.</p>
<p>I can see both points being posted here but there is something unsettling about the idea of &#8220;not loving ourselves, means we (as black Americans) aren&#8217;t worthy of being treated as human beings&#8221;</p>
<p>Last time I checked, I am a law abiding citizen. Is it my responsibility that other&#8217;s are not&#8230;someone, somewhere I&#8217;ve never met&#8230;or is it my responsibility to go by and teach my children a moral code and hope they make the right choices in their life?</p>
<p>I hope to hell I am not defined by what a murderer does, just because he happens to share my skin color.</p>
<p>However, we know that is the case many times. It&#8217;s unjust and it&#8217;s wrong.</p>
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		<title>By: Nquest</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nquest</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 01:06:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Continuing...&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;IMO, it is a form of internalized racism of the race-representation kind.  Seriously?  Why are &quot;WE&quot; defined by incidents like this?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;No one suggest that White America is defined by the polygamist ranch, campus riots (Michigan State, etc.) or any number of terrible criminal incidents.  But for some reason, Black people do this self-loathing stuff complete with this &quot;giving them ammunition&quot; rhetoric that suggest that the only way we can be acceptable to ourselves is for us, all of us, to be perfect specifically because of what somebody else will say.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;From that type of commentary, it&#039;s clear the thing we refuse to give to ourselves is the freedom to be human which is not to be confused with superhuman.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Continuing&#8230;</p>
<p>IMO, it is a form of internalized racism of the race-representation kind.  Seriously?  Why are &#8220;WE&#8221; defined by incidents like this?</p>
<p>No one suggest that White America is defined by the polygamist ranch, campus riots (Michigan State, etc.) or any number of terrible criminal incidents.  But for some reason, Black people do this self-loathing stuff complete with this &#8220;giving them ammunition&#8221; rhetoric that suggest that the only way we can be acceptable to ourselves is for us, all of us, to be perfect specifically because of what somebody else will say.</p>
<p>From that type of commentary, it&#8217;s clear the thing we refuse to give to ourselves is the freedom to be human which is not to be confused with superhuman.</p>
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		<title>By: Nquest</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nquest</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 00:48:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This has nothing to do with the incident but there is something seriously wrong with this kind of rhetoric:&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;If we as African-American, Black, Negro, people, can&#039;t love ourselves, we can&#039;t expect others to love us, or accept us, or treat us as human beings worthy of dignity and respect, either.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I have a huge issue with this idea that Black people have to be perfect in order to be treated as human.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;We grant respect to others without respect to how they treat each other and we hardly judge others by the most despicable among them, etc., etc.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This has nothing to do with the incident but there is something seriously wrong with this kind of rhetoric:</p>
<p><b>If we as African-American, Black, Negro, people, can&#8217;t love ourselves, we can&#8217;t expect others to love us, or accept us, or treat us as human beings worthy of dignity and respect, either.</b></p>
<p>I have a huge issue with this idea that Black people have to be perfect in order to be treated as human.</p>
<p>We grant respect to others without respect to how they treat each other and we hardly judge others by the most despicable among them, etc., etc.</p>
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		<title>By: Danielle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Danielle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 00:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OMG! I just have NO words for this situation. I&#039;m just sick.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OMG! I just have NO words for this situation. I&#8217;m just sick.</p>
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